Wednesday, February 18, 2015
Got this post from my senior's note in facebook. The content itself is written by one of my favorite lecture: Mba Nenny Saptadji.
If you find yourseft in love with someone who doesn't love you,
be gentle with yourself.
There's nothing wrong with you.
Love just didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart.
If you find someone else in love with you, and you don't love him,
feel honored that love came and called at your door,
but gently refuse the gift you cannot return.
Do not take advantage. Do not cause pain.
How you deal with love is how you deal with you
and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys,
even if our lives and ways are different.
If you fall in love with another, and he falls in love with you,
and then love chooses to leave,
do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame. Let it go.
There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know in time.
Remember that you don't choose love. Love chooses you.
All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into our lives.
Feel the way it fills you to overflowing.
Then reach out and give it away.
Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you.
Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit.
Give it to the world around you in anyway you can.
There is where many lovers go wrong.
Having been so long without love,
they understand love only as a need.
They see their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love.
They begin to look at love as something that flows to them rather than from them.
The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing,
but as their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as need.
They cease to be someone who generates love
and instead become someone who seeks love.
They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift,
and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away.
Remember this, and keep it to your heart.
Love has its own time, its own seasons,
and its own reason for coming and going.
You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into saying.
You can only embrace it when it arrives
and give it away when it comes to you.
But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover,
there is nothing you can do,
and there is nothing you should do.
Love always has been and always will be a mystery.
Be glad it came to live if a moment in your life.
you keep your heart open, it will come again.-
Tuesday, January 13, 2015
Never. Never ever try to come into my life. Because you'll be surprised. Maybe your cardio is too weak so it might be..boom!
I warn you to not -not even- trying to come into my life. You are not strong enough.
Go back to your badroom. Take a nap. :)
Sunday, January 11, 2015
Lo mungkin bisa aja bohong sama semua orang diluar sana.
Bahkan...kalau lo cukup jahat,lo bisa aja bohongin orang - orang yang lo sayang.
Lo gak akan pernah bisa bohongin orang-yang-sayang-sama-lo.
Iya. Tuhan yang bakal ngasih tau dia. Tuhan melindungi dia karena dia udh memberikan kasih sayangnya sama lo.
Kasih sayang adalah hal yang besar dan suci. Maka ketika orang mau memberikan kasih sayangnya thd orang lain, maka Tuhan akan yang akan jaga itu.
Makanya, "seseorang itu tidak akan pernah bisa membohongi orang (atau orang2) yang sayang sama dia."
ARN, januari 2015.
*hasil pemikiran, pertapaan, dan pengamatan selama ini*
Tuesday, December 09, 2014
Bukan darah yang mempengaruhi sifat dan karakter, tetapi lingkungan dan tempat ia hidup, tinggal, dan bertumbuh.
Monday, December 08, 2014
You never know when your one-second-harsh-word becomes the scar on people's heart for their entire life.
"Dan bertuturlah kepada manusia dengan perkataan yang baik.” (QS. al-Baqorah: 83).